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I have just
recently rediscovered my grandfather, Edgar Hart. I knew him as a
small child and I do have a few precious memories of him. I
remember that he took a nap on the couch after Sunday dinners.
I
remember him sawing wood laid over saw horses out by the grape
arbor.
I remember him sharpening his straight edged razors on his
razor strop which hung on the inside of a closet door.
I remember him having a black Cadillac, which even then I knew
was important to him. I believe I actually remember two of them, one
having been traded in for a new one at some point in time.
I remember that he was a very laid back, soft-spoken man who
seemed to have endless patience for the prattle and constant
questions of a small child.
I wish I had been given the chance to know him better. Recently
my Aunt Mary sent me a box of photos and other memorabilia, and I
got the distinct impression while going through these that my
grandfather was a very warm, sensitive and sentimental person.
There were post cards that he sent to my grandmother, mostly from
his army Days during or right after WWI, as well as post cards sent
to him by others.
There were other things he had sent to her as well, such as
valentines and little pictures he must have thought were amusing or
pretty.
There was a small brown manila envelope which held about 2 dozen
artistic images done on silk, about 5" x 7". I don't know what
process was used to make these, but they are absolutely beautiful.
Aunt Mary said he sent those to my grandmother from France. What
really amused me was in very faint handwriting on the outside was a
bit of a bawdy story. I'm not sure which one of them wrote that but
I suspect it was him. This also helped to make him come alive to me.
There were also several newspapers he had saved from the WWI era,
though they are brittle and damaged and I am afraid to try to open
them.
All of this gave me the feeling that here was a very sensitive
and sentimental man, and I verified this impression with my Aunt
Mary. She told me was all this and more. He was a romantic, who
enjoyed sending his wife things to make her happy, and to express
his love and his thoughts for her. A warm-hearted and caring person,
who never raised his voice or was ever harsh or disagreeable.
Nevertheless, he was a person of character. It occurs to me that
this is much like the way my mom was. I guess that's where she got
it from.
All of this was wonderful to see. But the really priceless things
in there were the photos, most of which I had never seen before.
These definitely convey to me a feeling of a very dashing, debonair
young man who was comfortable with himself, who loved life and who
enjoyed living it.
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